The Desire Gap: A Christian Couple's Guide to Mismatched Desire — Without Shame or Blame

Mismatched desire is one of the most common, and most silent, struggles in Christian marriages. The Desire Gap gives couples six frank-but-pastoral keys — naming the gap without shame, understanding spontaneous vs responsive desire, spotting the everyday thieves that starve intimacy, initiating and declining with grace, protecting intimacy on purpose, and choosing each other through every season. This 21-page guide includes a two-minute desire check-in, a reflection and couple exercise for every key, a quick-reference summary, space for your own notes, and a closing Intimacy Covenant to sign together.