How strong is your covenant?

Twelve honest questions. Two minutes. Completely private — “a threefold cord is not quickly broken.”

Twelve honest questions

Answer for how things actually are — not how you wish they were. It takes about two minutes, and you’ll see where your cord is strong and where it deserves some tender care.

Nothing you answer is saved or sent anywhere — it stays on your device.

Even better: take it separately, then compare notes.

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Covenant & Commitment

Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh.Genesis 2:24 (WEBBE)
  • We speak about the future as a settled “we”, not two separate “me”s.
  • Our disagreements stay free of threats of leaving.
  • My spouse gets the best of my time and attention — not what is left after work and phones.

Safety & Repair

Be kind to one another, tender hearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you.Ephesians 4:32 (WEBBE)
  • I can raise a hard subject without bracing for contempt or an explosion.
  • After an argument, we find our way back to each other within a day.
  • I feel safe being fully honest with my spouse about my struggles.

Communication & Friendship

Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one.Colossians 4:6 (WEBBE)
  • We talk about more than logistics — jobs, kids, chores — on an ordinary day.
  • My spouse genuinely listens to me before offering a fix.
  • We laugh together in a normal week.

Spiritual Intimacy

A threefold cord is not quickly broken.Ecclesiastes 4:12 (WEBBE)
  • We pray together, beyond mealtime grace.
  • Our faith visibly shapes how we treat each other in practice.
  • We worship together regularly, in some form.