The 60-Day Cleave Reset: a rhythm for rebuilding connection

Some seasons call for more than a daily question. After a hard stretch, or simply when you both sense you have grown distant, the 60-Day Cleave Reset offers a guided path back to each other.
A path, not a pile of tasks
The Reset breaks the work of reconnecting into small daily steps — a reflection, a conversation, a prayer, a practical act of care. You are never asked to fix everything at once. You are asked to take the next step, today.
What the sixty days hold
- Reflection. Short prompts that help you understand yourself and your spouse.
- Repair. Simple tools for apologising well and forgiving fully.
- Prayer. Learning to bring your marriage to God together.
- Rhythm. A streak that quietly celebrates your consistency.
Who it is for
The Reset is for couples who want momentum. Maybe you are recovering trust, maybe you are simply tired of coasting. Either way, sixty consecutive small steps can re-lay a foundation that felt shaky.
Walk it together
Do the steps side by side where you can. The point is not to complete a programme but to turn toward one another daily until turning toward each other becomes normal again.
Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate. — Mark 10:9
When the Reset is available on your account, begin day one together this week.
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